ExStay Connect

Peer-to-Peer Membership LinkedIn Group

Elevate Your Expertise with ExSTAY Connect

Looking for a dedicated space to connect, collaborate, and grow with other extended stay lodging leaders? Join the ExSTAY Connect LinkedIn group, exclusively for ESLA members. It’s the perfect platform to share your knowledge, seek advice, discover new strategies, and build valuable professional relationships.

Explore threads filled with discussion, expertise, and connections that enhance your hotel experience and broaden your professional network.

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Get Started with These Tips with ExSTAY Connect

Jumping into a new group can feel intimidating, so here are some simple ways to start building your presence—even if you’re not ready to post or engage deeply yet.

1. Warm Up by Observing

Spend a little time reading posts, comments, and discussions. Look for conversations that interest you or relate to your experience—no pressure to participate right away.

2. Update Your Profile

Ensure your LinkedIn profile accurately reflects your role and interests in extended-stay lodging. This helps other members understand your background and connect with you over shared experiences.

3. React and Engage Gently

You can simply “like” posts or comment with a quick note of appreciation. It’s an easy way to begin engaging and show that you’re present in the group—even if you’re feeling shy.

4. Share Helpful Resources

When you feel comfortable, share an article, tip, or insight that’s helped you in your business—it’s a great way to build peer-to-peer trust and add value right from the start.

5. Ask a Small Question

When ready, post a question about extended stay challenges or trends. Members love helping, and it’s often the best way to spark peer-to-peer advice and start relationships.

6. Follow Up & Keep Connected

If somebody replies to your post or comment, thank them and keep the conversation going. These small gestures make a big difference in building lasting connections.


These steps make it easier to start connecting and getting value from the community—at your own pace. Every contribution helps everyone benefit and grow together.